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Helen, My sister had three miscarriages early in her marriage. Then she had three beautiful children who grew up in a way to make any parent proud. She now has four grandchildren who she loves, and who love her, dearly.

Keep trying, Helen. You have my love and prayers and I am sure love and prayers from a lot of other people. You will be a wonderful mother!

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Thank you, Hugh.

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Lucas and Allie are eternally protected and loved by Jesus. To this day, I remember the chance to give you a hug on the open space trail to commemorate Allie. God bless you all.

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I still remember holding the tiny and beautiful body of my nephew. I remember the sadness of my son that he wasn’t going to get to play with his boy cousin he was so excited to have. I experience the frustrations of trying to answer the question of “why did cousin have to go live in heaven?” whenever the kids see his picture. Frustrations that stem from grief and sadness and inherent unfairness of the situation. I applaud you for standing up and continuing to live your life for your children to honor them and celebrate them. I applaud you for having the courage to craft such a beautiful and raw tribute to your handsome son and your beautiful daughter that not only educates but brings life to something that is often left in the shadows. Lucas’ loss did indeed rock the world of the entire family and forever altered it. Love to you and Mike on this day and everyday that you endure living without your children. 💙💗

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Thank you for all the love and support for all these years and many more.

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Ma’am, words are not enough to describe the pain and sadness I have for you and your family. I am sure this is one of the most difficult things you have ever had to write, and it is by far the most emotional I have ever been reading an article. Your bravery in writing this post about maybe the most difficult topic any couple can ponder is incredible, and I thank you so much. The Lord has blessed you with a gift of writing, and through your work, I know you have helped many, many individuals who have experienced the same tragedy as you and your family did.

Thank you for all you do, Helen, and for what you have graciously shared. He is here for you and your family, and your bravery and courage do not go unnoticed. You are the kindest writer I know, and your talent is incredible. Thank you, ma’am.

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Thank you for your kind feedback. God bless.

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Helen - you and your husband are not alone. You have His attention and His plan is unfolding.

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